Sunday, 18 September 2011

Flirting Tips

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Flirting Tips

Open Question: Is this a definate no? or a maybe? or what?

Posted: 18 Sep 2011 08:48 AM PDT

Here's a text conversation I had with the boy I like yesterday. A little background information: The day I met him I could tell he was important. I had an instant connection with him. And as we started talking and getting to know each other, I don't think I have met anybody more perfect. He is nerdy, shy, sweeter then anyone I have ever met, understanding, likes to listen, I love all his little quirks and he is just, amazing. We have all the same hobbies, (swimming, movies, music, etc.) so we have a lot to talk about, but we are so oppisite on our behaviours we balance each other out (Me overconfident, he underconfident. I like to talk, he likes to listen. I'm a writer he's an illustrator, literlly and figuratively.) I know I'm young (we're both 15), but I never get into guys for much longer then a day. But this one is different. I can honestly say that this is the first guy I have ever had strong feelings for. I hung out with him all day yesterday at one of our swim meets, and I thought he was flirting with me and I'm one of thoses people who is straight forward so he knows I like him. I wanted to know if there was anything in return so i asked him over text because I couldn't ask him at the swim meet with all those people there. Here is our conversation. Me: Dude, I have a question Branden: Ask Me: Do you like me, like at all? Cuz if u don't I'll like stop the constant flirting and throwing myself at u. Be honest, and I'm not pushing you to make a move now just so I don't feel like I'm working towards nothing Him: Honestly, I don't think Me: Ok… Him: I like you, but I dont know if I like you in that way. Youre an awesome person. Me: So that's your nice way of saying no…? And then no reply. I don't know what he meant, like a maybe in a little bit of time? Or I only see you as a friend so I don't want to hurt you but I don't like you like that? I don't know. Advice please? Anyone who has been in this situation? Yahoo Answers calims I have a bunch of spelling errors. I can't spell to save my life, so please ignore that please :3

Open Question: Are these signs he likes me?

Posted: 18 Sep 2011 08:01 AM PDT

I've been bestfriends with one of my Guy friends for 8 years. From first grade and now to ninth. He was my first real friend when I moved here. He is always super nice and flirts a lot. When I had knee surgery and was on crutches for 15 weeks he was the one that always help me. He made sure I was careful and always comfortable. If I needed something he was there. We happen to have a lot of classes togeter this year and he sits next to me in most of them. In one class we are partners and he always has his hand on my leg or knee. When ever we hang out with some other friends we end up holding hands. Once I even kissed him on the cheek but it wasn't cause I felt I needed to or anything. He has also done the same thing. One other thing.. he has a girlfriend. I know I shouldn't really be letting him do this stuff cause of his girlfriend. She foes to a different school but we all have soccer together. Saturday I asked him: " you know I'm not trying to hog you or anything, I don't want Tori to get mad at you cause I'm always wih you when you do have the oppertunity to hang out." He was all like yeah she got mad at me last week cause I wasn't paying attention to her. And he does. At soccer, wether its practice or a game, he talks to me and stays with me more than her. But yeah this is my confused ram le about something that's been on my mind lately.. one other thing! Although I'd love to be in a relationship with him, I have a fear that he will break I off cause "it wont work". I. Just crazy. If anyone has any advice or any other signs that maybe he does like me, letvme know!(:

Open Question: I just wanna know, from the perspective of the "pursuant" Lady?

Posted: 18 Sep 2011 07:17 AM PDT

Ok, so I am a girl and when it comes to dating, flirting, and all that good stuff. I make my moves super slow and I don't really make moves if I am surrounded by people I know. Now here is my concern, I have had plenty of women that hit on me when I go out with my friends, and the thing is that I want to flirt back and meet their demands, but I really cant do anything if (like I said) I am surrounded by my friends or the girl has a partner and I am aware of it. So, hypothetically speaking, if you are the girl that is pursuing me, how would you feel if I turn you down because I am shy? like yesterday this girl ask me to kiss her 3 times, I had to turn her down, and she knew it was because I was shy but I kinda "hate" myself for turning her down. Advice? How do you overcome shyness around friends?

Open Question: how can i help my friend or give her advice?

Posted: 18 Sep 2011 07:02 AM PDT

my best friend had this guy over 14 years, and he cheats on her alot, my best friend was heart broken she didnt know what to do, she said that she cant divorce him because she has 4 kids, and she doesnt want to lose them, her husband is very nice with the kids, he takes them to school, buys them stuff,clothes, he is like a perfect daddy, but the problem is he is a cheater, if they divorce they kids will be lost its either my best friend takes the kids or her husband, she doesnt work, so she doesnt have money but her husband gives her allowance, she saw alot of sexual messages between him and other ladies, he talks on the phone with ladie and says things he should not while he is married, my best friend knows about eveythibgd his done, he flirts with his secretery, he chats on facebook with other women saying lets do shisha together, lets hang out tonight just you and me, my best friend is really pissed, she keeps on crying crying, she is 27 turning 28 in december, she is sweet with him, very respectful, and i just feel sorry, he once flirted with me , and i said i am sorry blah blah , i kept on talking to him then he knew i wasnt the type of girl that would lie to her own best friend, her husband travels all around the world with his friend and goes to bars and discos, hang out with forigion ladie , while his wife is waiting at home for him, what should i tell her to do, i feel very sorry, i hate seeing her like that, i also remember that time whe i was on phone i could hear him screaming at her saying, " its non of ur bussiness, i told u she is just a friend and that lipstick on my shirt was just a joke she was joking with me" she said that their was lipstick on his shirt and blush on his collar/suit she really needs my help and advice plz plz help

Open Question: Am I wasting my time with this guy?

Posted: 18 Sep 2011 06:29 AM PDT

We've been together a few months, but lately he seems distant. Neither of us like to talk about our feelings and it has never been a problem until now, because I just don't know how he feels. I get mixed signals from him, but nothing blatantly obvious that he wants to break up. For example, when we watch tv he never sits next to me any more. Same thing when we're with our friends, but I don't mind that as it gives me space. He rarely texts me or rings me, and never writes back on Facebook chat. He does text me a lot when we're talking about sex though. We're both back in college full time now too which is going to make things ten times harder to see each other etc. All of this points to the negative, but at the same time we still get along great. We've never had a fight or argument, he makes me laugh all the time and he gives me all the freedom I want and isn't at all possessive or controlling, unlike my last relationship which had me in tears every day. He does flirt and stuff when we're out in public sometimes, and he hasnever said a bad word about our relationship. I just don't know if it's worth staying with him if he keeps getting more and more distant. Anyone any advice?

Open Question: Best friend says he likes me, just before I go to University. Help?

Posted: 18 Sep 2011 04:06 AM PDT

We've been really good mates for 3 years, on and off flirting but I mostly ignored it. Anyway, I'm leaving home in 6 days and we ended up making out all night last week. He says he'll do whatever suits me best. He's being really good and lovely about it. Everyone says we're a good match and I'll never find a nicer guy who'd respect me more (he's extraordinarily gentlemanly) since I'm really nervous about sex etc. He really likes me and he's going through a hard time at home and says I'm the only person he feels himself around any more. I had a good night with him, like it was really sweet and lovely. And I did spend the whole night with him, which must mean something. I had a lovely time. But I don't like him half as much as he likes me, not yet anyway. I've never really done that thing where you go out with someone when you only have luke warm feelings. which eventually warm up. And since he's such a good friend I'm not sure how to handle this. Any advice?

Open Question: I need advice.. On boys, crushes and flirting.?

Posted: 18 Sep 2011 03:13 AM PDT

Ok, here's the deal. I have a crush on this boy, he is super amazing. So nice, sweet and loving. The thing is though, I don't really know how to make him notice me as more than a friend. We talk every day, he has my phone number and he is just a tiny bit on the flirty side, but that's about it. OK, so my final question is: - How do I make him notice me as more than a friend? - How do I let him know it's okay to make a move (If it ever comes to that) - How do I flirt with him, without being too "on the spot", you kow. Details: - He is 18, I'm 16 (this is legal where I'm from, so don't freak). - We both love music and go to the same performing arts school. Anyways, thanks.

Open Question: Dating advice help please does this girl like me?

Posted: 18 Sep 2011 01:16 AM PDT

there is this girl I met at a high school football game we were at and we talked almost the entire game and she also kinda arm hugged me before I left. But tonight at a big kinda party type thing she was with her friends and so was i and she didn't say hi to me at all and I didn't say hi either. But i have caught her staring at me before and she always seems to say hi whenever I see her and she did seem to look at me a lot. She always seems to stare Does the staring mean she may have a crush on me and me and that i should start flirting

Open Question: lesbian relationship advice.?

Posted: 18 Sep 2011 12:58 AM PDT

as stated above, this is a 'gay' issue. okay, First off I met this girl when I was 13, she was 12. We met under the pretense that I was a boy, and I never told her otherwise. We became close friends and ended up falling in love and started dating for two years, keep in mind this is over the internet. Once I grew alittle older I decided to tell her the truth, it didn't end too well but we started talking again and ended up dating for three more years online, web camming, talking, texting. She was my best friend, and I was hers. We were each others first loves, and best friends. Drama happened in my life and I ended up getting sent to group home for a couple of months. I knew that things wouldn't be the same and that's around the time I felt we were drifting apart. Once I got out five months later we started talking again, but only three weeks after i became 'free' I got sent back to the damn place for again, five more months. Once I got out for good, we started talking, yet again and decided to get back together. By this time I was 17, she was 16 and we understood alittle more in life. Due to the feeling of us growing distance I did everything in my power to not let that happen, but It did and we lost our connection. We ended up not talking for a while, she moved on and I moved on. I got into a serious relationship after loosing her, I guess it was a rebound but my girlfriend at the time didn't like me talking to her... We're gonna call the first love Beth, and we're gonna call the new girlfriend Kate. I would get urges now and again to call Beth, and I would. We would talk alittle here and there and I found out she was also in a serious relationship with a guy we will call Charlie. Now Charlie and Beth have been going at a steady pace for a good year and me and Kate have been going for almost Three. Only problem is I'm very unhappy with Kate and It seems I cannot let go of Beth. Ive tried not talking to her, Ive tried telling her how i still feel for her, Ive tried everything but I can not get this girl out from my head. Going on 20 years old, Ive grown up. And Beth has grow up. I recently got into contact yet again with Beth and we have been 'friends' She has never told me to leave her alone. I have never in my life actually met Beth, even though we dated for five years, we never met. I feel like its time to actually go and see her. Seeing as how Im coming into alittle bit of money im going to buy a car and take a trip to see her. I recently found out that her and her boyfriend went on break, and i got drunk and sent her a real long, heart felt message on Facebook [damnfbx.x] and It explained that I loved her still.. since the time we broke up last when I was 17, she has never been real 'real' to me and i asked her straight up.. 'do you think I ever have a chance with you again' she told me basically that she was 'iffy' with me. She didn't know who i really was because of things in the past and all of my lies worried her. she told me that she would like to see where it goes, get a chance to know me and junk..she told me that she 'dont think of us being a couple, thinks i have girl problems and she doesn't want to be' [when i asked her if i had a chance with her] Since she told me this, ive been flirting with her. Been calling her beautiful, babe, love ect, I even asked her if she liked if I flirted with her and she said yes. Her feeding me positive attention in my actions are causing me to, im afraid.. be TOO persistent. She knows im coming to see her in a few weeks, she even told me to come to the fair with her today.. I want to ask her more questions, but shes always the type to 'limit' her responses.. she says no more than a few words a text, unlike me who can type the 150 word limit with ease.. like ive said i have been texting her serious answers since she told me how she felt, and half the time she falls asleep on me and i get no answer, even when she wakes up she doesn't reply back..I know her, well I think I do and I know that shes scared. BASICALLY, what Im asking..am I being too persistent? Im not a new 'lesbian' ive been gay my whole life. I know theres a line between persistent and needy. Should I continue what Im doing? She knows I love her, she knows I want to be with her. or should I just quit testing her? We've been on a steady talking pace for a week now, should i just, stop? see what happens? Should I go forward with seeing her in a few weeks? or am I just still holding onto that first love? Im TWENTY, im not THIRTEEN. I know what love is and Im asking a serious question. I want honest advice, seeing as I cant talk to her about it. she gives me the impression that she wants to be with me, she never flirts with me [seeings as she knows im in a relationship i guess?] that might be the reason but I DONT KNOW D: should I just call her and be like 'look, we need t

Open Question: Stuck is a dilemma need help?

Posted: 18 Sep 2011 12:54 AM PDT

My two best friends are sisters. One is a year than the other and two years older than me. I am the youngest out of the group. Both keep on hugging me and trying to get my attention. I had for the past few weeks now been asked to go on a date with Shelby (the younger one). Then her sister Ashely will take me out the next day. I like spending time with both of them, but I hate being in a tag a war game. It makes things all difficult. I don't even like either of them more than a friend. They don't know that. They keep on kissing me and flirting. I don't why, but I flirt back. I want to step out of there war and just hang out with the girl I love. I can't she saw me kissing Shelby and later Ashley. Cindy thinks I am a player now because of them. A lot of people do. I can't ditch them and I don't know what to tell them. Anyone have any advice?

Open Question: what should i do about this girl i met on fb?

Posted: 18 Sep 2011 12:19 AM PDT

well few weeks ago, i started talkin' to this girl on fb that i never met in real life. she goes to a different high school, but still we live close to each other (within 10 minutes). I rly rly rly like her and i don't know what should i do. She is in a relationship with this guy and I am assuming that its not that serious. when we chat, i sometimes compliment or flirt";)' with her and she flirt back, she gives me smiley faces, and she "likes" some of my pictures on fb. We r not completely strangers to each other, cuz i know some of her guys friends and i know one of her girl friends whom i went out with last year. Oh and I am almost 17, she's almost 16 if that helps ! can someone plz give me any advice of what should i do? thanks in advance!

Open Question: Does this guy like me as more than a friend?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 11:18 PM PDT

I have this guy in my life at the moment who is always nice and friendly to me, but I am wondering if it could be much more than that. I'm 18 and he's 2 years younger, and I am unsure why I am attracted to such a younger guy...He's friends with a few of my friends, and we talked rarely until the last few days of school of last year, he practically was all over me in our block math class we had for no reason and my friend thought he was making his move since school was about to end. He had so many other friends in there, yet he constantly kept flirting, smiling, taking my phone, only talking to me...My friends that he is friends with as well came in there, and he was flirting with them, but staring at me while he was doing it. It was all weird, but I brushed it off when we didn't talk all summer long. A few weeks into this school year, he comes out of nowhere at lunch and grabs me by the shoulders to say a quick hi and walk away. Ever since then, he says hi to me about every day, but always has to have some form of contact whether with grabbing me by the shoulders or by the arm. It's a bit awkward actually because he literally comes out of nowhere. And he's tall, so I shouldn't miss him! He's told me I looked nice before, and he stares and smiles a lot. The downside to all of this is that he is friends with a lot of girls, but I don't see him treating them the way he does me. Some of his friends have told me that he just acts that way sometimes, so I could be misreading it completely wrong. Then some of his others friends have mentioned that its weird. He did know exactly what car I drive by seeing me in the parking lot, and we only get to have occasional conversations because we don't have class. He hasn't asked for my number or anything, but I am thinking maybe he is just nervous about it. He remembers things we talked about, and always listens to everything I have to say. I am just thinking he could possibly like me, but he is just a bit uneasy since I am older...My friends all say it is pretty obvious he likes me, but I am not sure since I don't know him that well. I know this question was a bit immature for my age, but I just needed some advice! Thanks for reading and your help! (:

Open Question: PLEASE HELP!!! advice and thoughts please?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 11:15 PM PDT

there is this girl that i met during freshman year at the homecoming f-ball game, we flirted with eachother for nearly the entire game and i already had a hc date but it was just a friend. so the next day is the dance and dinner and it turns out this same girl was in our group without a date and she couldnt go to yhe dance, but we had a group of all friends so i kinda flirted with her during dinner and while we were waiting for our rides to the dance. i talked with her during some other football games that year, but for some reason things just broke off and we didnt really talk at all. but sometimes i caught myself staring at her during bball games. sometimes i even caught her looking at me, but i was too nervous to make a move. so then sophomore year came and i wanted to ask her to homecomibg but i chickened out for some reason. i was soooo nervous to ask her and i didnt get it cause i had such an easy time talking and flirting with her the year before. we didnt talk at all that year until 2nd semester when she decided to come sit next to me in class the entire semester. we talked and had a few laughs and my friend who was sitting right by us said he thought we were flirting a lot, but i didnt think we were. we talked in class but never outside of class like texting. i was still kinda nervous around her too. then the year ended and we still havent talked and now its my junior year and my friend said that he found out from her that she couldnt go to hc this year and i was pissed cause i wanted to ask her. i've passed her in the hallway a couple times this year and we always kinda make eye contact akwardly and then look away and dont wave or say anything. i'm a pretty shy person so i'm not very good at starting conversations or anything. she is not as shy as me but she can be sometimes around me in the hallways and stuff. its pathetic that i've been crushin on her for 3 yrs, but i just cant get her beautiful smile and wavy black hair outta my mind. what do i do?

Open Question: i'm new at school and i met the cutest boy EVAR we flirt all the time but he kinda ignores me but not exactly?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 11:10 PM PDT

see i met him in my end of the day class and he started talking to me he started hitting on me and we started flirting alot and oh god I've never met anyone cuter plus he's funny and nice and we started flirting and texting but we have three other classes together and he ignores me in all of them but at that last class of the day we always talk and flirt and its not like there aren't ppl in the last class of the day so its not like he doesn't do it in front of other ppl so he's honestly just making no sense and i'm not confused but i defiantly don't want to stop talking to him any advice!?!

Open Question: How do you get over your crush?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 10:40 PM PDT

Theres this guy,he knows I like him because I made it very obvious by being a idiot lol. When we first met,he flirted with me with body language,but then he didn't even hug me. He comes over to me,but he talks to my best friend because theyre friends and he'll just stare at me in this way,his eyes arent very calm,I can't explain it. I try to ask something and he'll just nod or something,so I believe he's not interested in me and I try to get over him,but I can't,I always catch myself thinking about him. Any advice please? :/

Resolved Question: I don't know what to do. Please give me advice.?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 10:33 PM PDT

So I am 13. I have gone through a lot. When I was in 2 or 3rd grade my brother and sister almost died in a car crash. It was hard for me. My brother was all scraped up. He still has messed up bones. It was hard to see him bleeding. Knowing that my siblings almost died matured me a bit. Then in fourth grade our teacher was diagnosed with cancer. Our whole class raised money for her treatments. Then she passed away. That was really shocking. That was the first person I'd known that died. Then in sixth grade like a month before my birthday my parents told me they were getting divorced. I became depressed and my best friend became distance. I became emo and people would make fun of me not knowing that I often thought about cutting and ending my life. People kept betraying me and it hurt. I was thinking about going to therapy but I decided to wait. I found a new friend and I got happier. This year my old friend used me for my money during the summer. Then when school started she left me completely. It's hard because we were friends since 1st grade. Then there keep being people that say they couldn't live without me but I know they are lying. They always use me as their last resort if they can't find anyone better. Also I have to choose between living with my mom or my dad. I currently live with my dad because he lives near my school. My mom lives 45 mins away from where I now live and I only get to see her like twice a month. My mom has a bf but my dad is kinda anti-social. He and this lady I don't like are always together and I'm afraid they are going to start dating. She used to be my moms friend but she hangs with my dad more. Even when my parents were together she flirted with my dad. She always acts like my mom. I dont want ton leave my dad alone but where my mom lives has better school oopportunities I often think about suicide for 3 reasons. One who I'm gonna live with. Two I have a horrible social life (one true friend). Three I'm fat. I am overweight and I hate my body. I want to try bulimia or anorexia but my dad makes sure I have at least one meal a day and I'm worried about my health. I binge eat and stress eat. Three days ago I almost cut myself but I didn't with a huge amount of self control. Please tell me: should I go to therapy, should I self harm? I need help.

Open Question: I have a cute guy in my study hall class, and I want to talk to him but I don't know how..?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 10:30 PM PDT

I don't know how to strike up a conversation or flirt with him. Any advice? So, all in all, I guess what I am asking is how to flirt. Thank you.

Open Question: Give up or go after her? how do i go after her? need advice and thoughts please?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 09:38 PM PDT

there is this girl that i met during freshman year at the homecoming f-ball game, we flirted with eachother for nearly the entire game and i already had a hc date but it was just a friend. so the next day is the dance and dinner and it turns out this same girl was in our group without a date and she couldnt go to yhe dance, but we had a group of all friends so i kinda flirted with her during dinner and while we were waiting for our rides to the dance. i talked with her during some other football games that year, but for some reason things just broke off and we didnt really talk at all. but sometimes i caught myself staring at her during bball games. sometimes i even caught her looking at me, but i was too nervous to make a move. so then sophomore year came and i wanted to ask her to homecomibg but i chickened out for some reason. i was soooo nervous to ask her and i didnt get it cause i had such an easy time talking and flirting with her the year before. we didnt talk at all that year until 2nd semester when she decided to come sit next to me in class the entire semester. we talked and had a few laughs and my friend who was sitting right by us said he thought we were flirting a lot, but i didnt think we were. we talked in class but never outside of class like texting. i was still kinda nervous around her too. then the year ended and we still havent talked and now its my junior year and my friend said that he found out from her that she couldnt go to hc this year and i was pissed cause i wanted to ask her. i've passed her in the hallway a couple times this year and we always kinda make eye contact akwardly and then look away and dont wave or say anything. i'm a pretty shy person so i'm not very good at starting conversations or anything. she is not as shy as me but she can be sometimes around me in the hallways and stuff. its pathetic that i've been crushin on her for 3 yrs, but i just cant get her beautiful smile and wavy black hair outta my mind. what do i do?

Open Question: Im wondering if a guy likes me?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 09:23 PM PDT

I'm 12 years old and in the 7th grade. I'm wondeing if a guy likes me.. 1.He always complements me on my hair 2.He stares at me all during English 3. In HIstory he flirts and pretends to act all cool. The thing is he had a girlfriend last year when we were in the 6th grade her name is Ally Sledz and she was an 8th grade but at are first 6th grade dance he kissed her right in front of my friken face!! I need advice quickly! Our next dance is Wednesday so please hurry.. His name is Johnny. I want him to ask me to dance

Open Question: girl flirting with me who has boyfriend?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 09:19 PM PDT

so this girl was flirting with me who has a boyfirend, i believe they are serious, i don't know the details but i think her boyfriend found out and didn't like it, then she started asking her friend for advice i found out cause she texted me instead by accident at one point, myself i am seperated from my wife a couple months ago, this girl made it seem like she was asking for advice from her friend because i was married not too long ago however that text sent to me indicated i was married so her friend didnt know this yet so they must have been discussing something else, I am kind wondering what they were discussing? We were almost going to go to lunch but the she ended up telling me it wouldn't be a good idea because she doesn't like to cause drama and she has a boyfriend and she doesn't know if my intentions are good (whatever that means, do you know?), I told her I her that i'd respect that, then later i made a joke saying she should come spend the night (i thought it was funny at the time but don't think she took it the same way), I did appologized and haven't talked to her since which was yesterday. She was quick to flirt too, so my questions are why would she be so quick to flirt with me if she is happy with her boyfriend? and why would she ask her friend for advice? Do you think i should wait a few days and talk to her?

Open Question: Should i try to get her or give up? if get her, how? advice & thoughts appreciated.?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 09:06 PM PDT

there is this girl that i met during freshman year at the homecoming f-ball game, we flirted with eachother for nearly the entire game and i already had a hc date but it was just a friend. so the next day is the dance and dinner and it turns out this same girl was in our group without a date and she couldnt go to yhe dance, but we had a group of all friends so i kinda flirted with her during dinner and while we were waiting for our rides to the dance. i talked with her during some other football games that year, but for some reason things just broke off and we didnt really talk at all. but sometimes i caught myself staring at her during bball games. sometimes i even caught her looking at me, but i was too nervous to make a move. so then sophomore year came and i wanted to ask her to homecomibg but i chickened out for some reason. i was soooo nervous to ask her and i didnt get it cause i had such an easy time talking and flirting with her the year before. we didnt talk at all that year until 2nd semester when she decided to come sit next to me in class the entire semester. we talked and had a few laughs and my friend who was sitting right by us said he thought we were flirting a lot, but i didnt think we were. we talked in class but never outside of class like texting. i was still kinda nervous around her too. then the year ended and we still havent talked and now its my junior year and my friend said that he found out from her that she couldnt go to hc this year and i was pissed cause i wanted to ask her. i've passed her in the hallway a couple times this year and we always kinda make eye contact akwardly and then look away and dont wave or say anything. i'm a pretty shy person so i'm not very good at starting conversations or anything. she is not as shy as me but she can be sometimes around me in the hallways and stuff. its pathetic that i've been crushin on her for 3 yrs, but i just cant get her beautiful smile and wavy black hair outta my mind. what do i do?

Open Question: What do I need to do? I feel like such a loser.?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 08:58 PM PDT

I have never written one of these God damned sob stories on the internet before, anywhere actually. I just want insight, personal experiences, anything from someone out there on the internet who can help. I am a good looking guy, bottom line, I know it. You can call me cocky, self centered, or tell me my flaw is that I think too much of myself, but this is the truth. That obviously doesn't guarantee anything. Girls have told me I look cute before, they flirt with me, even grab my ass, after that, well, that's the reason I'm writing this. I am 16 years old and a junior in high school. I have plenty of guy friends, we go over to each others houses, go to games, party and sometimes we drink (I know so cool right). When it comes to conversing with girls though, I'm absolutely hopeless. All of my friends have girlfriends, and while I realize it may seem that I am desperate and need to be patient, I can't help but wonder if I will ever find a girlfriend if I can't keep her attention after the first ass-grab. I know, I have to be confident, chin up, shoulders back, listen to what they have to say. I can be funny but that just leads to friend zoning. I have never asked a girl on a date, per say. That is just because whenever I have a conversation with a girl it just goes cold. Have you had enough of this sob story yet? No? well..... Today was prom and I didn't come with a date. That doesn't seem to really matter at our school I guess because all of the girls just leave their dates and go grind on some other guy. I tried get into it some but I just couldn't do it. Other people were giving me advice but overall I stuck out like a sore thumb. It was so pathetic. I know I have the ability to be interesting but I'm so unconfident by nature. How can I improve myself? If there is no good way, please tell me it get's better in college because I can't keep living like this!

Open Question: I am unsure if this guy likes me as a friend or it could be more...Help!?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 08:50 PM PDT

I am 18 years old, and I know I am probably a bit to old to asking the question, "does he like me?" and I should grow up and get the answer for myself. I have asked my friends and my sister for their advice, but I just want the honest opinion of a stranger before I decided to make my move. The guy I am talking about is a bit younger, 2 years to be exact. I'm not sure why I am attracted to him, but for some reason I just am...I'll try to remember details to help you answer my question! thanks for reading! (: Well, this guy and I had class together last year, it was a block class, 2 mods long. I knew he was friends with a few of my friends, but we never talked except for a few words now and then. Well, the end of the year rolls around and for the last few days, idk what happened, but he was constantly talking to me, flirting, sitting on my desk, smiling at me, etc. My friends in there just thought he was making his move, and I was guessing that was the answer. He took my phone and started tweeting things for me such as "I love (his twitter name)" and immature things to try to tease me. My friend BreAnna came in there to talk to me, and he was all over her flirting, but looking at me as he he was doing it, trying to make me jealous I guess. Then, he got in my purse, took my car keys, and wouldn't give them back. Somehow he managed to say he knew the exact make, model, and size of my car by looking at my keys. It was kind of weird and someone else in that class even called him a creep...I'm not sure how you can tell a person's car exactly from the back of the lock/unlock button. He obviously must have been watching me drive or something haha. We stop talking altogether all summer really after school ended. It was odd... Anyway, this year comes around and I haven't seen him for weeks. I'm sitting at the lunch table with my friends, and I feel someone grabbing on my shoulder and I look up and see him smiling. We talked for a little while, and then he walks away. After that, the boy manages to pop up everywhere, out of nowhere on a daily basis and say hi to me. He always either grabs my shoulders or grabs me by the arm before saying hello. It's like he can't do it without touching me, and I find it weird. I was sitting in my AP English class and he comes in to make up a test and sits by me, and we talk for awhile about lots of things. He remembers some of the things we talked about weeks ago which I thought was weird as well. He kept smiling a lot and mentioning himself a lot too. He's always friendly and when I pass him by in the hall, I catch him staring most of the time. He was the first one to tell me "happy birthday" on twitter a couple days ago, but other than that, we don't talk via social networking. We really only talk when we see each other in school. He hasn't asked for my number or anything, which is weird, but I am just thinking he's afraid to make his move, since I am older, and he might not think I think of him that way. I know this entire thing has sounded immature, I just really wanted someone's opinion! He's really nice and adorable I must say...Even if he is younger. My friends say it's obvious he likes me and I need to get to know him better, become better friends. One day in class last year, he randomly told me I looked nice when I had fixed my hair prettier than usual. Not that that means anything, but guys usually don't give compliments. Please answer and help me...I need some advice! Thanks so much for reading this immature question! haha,

Open Question: Hey ALL GUYS ADVICE NEEDED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 08:26 PM PDT

well i need guy advice.....i started working with this really great guy that i really am starting to like he is a little older than me but only 2 years but i dont know if he likes me, he always talks to me and asks me to do stuff for him, and he always seems to talk to me about sex or something related to it and we will talk for hours and hours about nothing, but what i really need advice on is how to flirt noticably but i cant be skanky cause i am at work????? any ideas??? what is your turn on?? How do you figure out that a girl likes you?? I know he knows i am flirting with him already....he flirts back he is always flirting too, but its kinda natural for both of us, but I need to find a better way to flirt with him??? Best flirting tips?????

Open Question: Hey guys need HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ( ONLY GUYS)?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 08:26 PM PDT

well i need guy advice.....i started working with this really great guy that i really am starting to like he is a little older than me but only 2 years but i dont know if he likes me, he always talks to me and asks me to do stuff for him, and he always seems to talk to me about sex or something related to it and we will talk for hours and hours about nothing, but what i really need advice on is how to flirt noticably but i cant be skanky cause i am at work????? any ideas??? what is your turn on?? How do you figure out that a girl likes you??

Open Question: I NEED ADVICE ON A VERY MEAN AND ANNOYING GIRL IN MY CLASS PLS!?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 08:02 PM PDT

There's this girl in my class who is really annoying. Lets call her Jenny. Jenny lies a lot and last week she told me that i always lie and i lie like a million times a day! Me and my friend are planning to go to my guy friend's football game tomorrow and she invited herself to come along with us. I don't want her there but we cant tell her she cant come because my friend already said yes without knowing how i feel about her. I don't know what to do. All she's gonna do there is : *show off her old broken ipod *if there's a food stand she going to ask me to lend her money or giver her more than half of my food because she is pretty fat. *flirt with this guy in our class who conceited *scream so loud that everyone will be staring at us *leave me out with all my conversations with my other friend I can't take it anymore! Jenny really annoying, i want to confront her but if i make one wrong move she's going to tell her mom and her mom is going to tell my mom i'm the mean one... I'm not a really mean person but i don't want to be her friend. I give her too many chances and she takes advantage of me :'( No one in my class likes her but she can't accept the truth! She pushes herself to us. Last year she used to be very popular and became friends with these two other girls. Let's call them Heather and Lily. Heather and Lily are sometimes conceited but they're not mean people. when Heather would hang out with Lily Jenny would get super jealous and mad, so Jenny would come to me and my friends lets call them Ariel(the girl coming to the football game),Nicole,and Erica. Were like the nerds/smarter people in the class but were still pretty social... Jenny would ask us if she can join us and we would always say yes except Nicole because her and Jenny have issues. When Jenny Heather and Lily stop fighting she just leaves us and talks behind our backs. whenever i tell her a secret she blurts it out to everyone! (btw im in 7th grade)

Resolved Question: Signs that he likes me? Guy and Girl advice needed!?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 07:41 PM PDT

So, i like this guy. One day While walking in the hallway we looked at each other and then he playfully bumped into me with his elbow. He also stares and then turns away when i look at him. We text now and stuff too. We were talking and he was like were gonna fight! He was kidding, is that flirting?

Open Question: Need advice about a weird situation?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 07:27 PM PDT

I pretended to be another girl and even though I thought we were Just friends I would flirt with this guy and he sent mixed messages so I didn't think he had 'real' feelings towards me/and the girl in the pictures. After he found out he was really mad and acted like he Hated me through his words to me, others, and by his actions Now I am on the site again but I'm not sure what to do around him. Should I wait and see if he talks and likes the real me for me? Should I try talking to him again? I wish I could just forget about him but I like him a Lot and would like to at least be friends!

Open Question: Advice and info on women lol?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 07:25 PM PDT

I known a girl about a year who's nice, we've never actually met in person yet. She lives far away. Exchanged pics/talked on phone a little. Mostly Facebook chat. She's moving to my town and she suggested me & her should watch some movies in our pyjamas. is she flirting? Im getting to old for this lol.

Resolved Question: I'm practically in love with my best friend..what do i do now?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 06:56 PM PDT

1. i'm so lost in my mind that I want real advice please 2. this may be kinda long, I will try to shorten it as much as possible but please if yu read this whole thing I'd be so greatful especially if u have good advice to offer ok so im a girl and my best friend is a girl. Im in high school and she is in college (we became best friends in high school). I don't like labels, but basically I'm "bisexual" if u must know. So the first year I met her we were like sisters but towards the end of the year when she was leaving for college, I knew I had a crush on her but she had no idea that I even liked girls at all. We had a rough summer and ultimately the day before she left for college we were no longer friends. At all. I was mad at her because she did a lot of stuff that I thought our friendship wasn't worth it, especially knowing that I liked her and I thought well she's going to college so it'd be easier for me to forget about her. But then throughout the next year she kept reaching out to me a few times and then when this past summer came again, we had dinner one random night. We talked about our friendship and stuff and I finally told her that I had liked her before and to be honest, I still kinda did after seeing her face-to-face that night. She told me she had feelings for me too! She said at first she was unsure because she had never felt that way about a girl and she was confused as to how she felt about me but after knowing that I liked her she realized she might've liked me too. But she has a boyfriend. After that night we didn't talk really and then we both attended our friend's birthday party and i spent the night at our friend's house and she came over too along with some other friends for a few hours. We talked so it wouldn't be awkward, but still it was different. Then we texted a little after and a few days later she was leaving for college again. The day before she left she picked me up after school and we went to a local coffee place and talked and hung out but it wasn't until after she went home and we texted that she said she still likes me NOW and I definitely like her and we had texted for a week after she left for college and flirted big time and I don't know it felt right. But then I hadn't heard from her for a few days and now she takes hourssss to text me back and she doesn't talk to me like she likes me now its kinda like whatever and I don't know. I went a year without talking to her and I was doing fine and now that I let her back in my life especially after opening to her about my feelings and she shared hers with me too, I'm hooked all over again and I don't know what to do. Part of me thinks it'll never happen and I cant stand being away from her for months at a time and I should just drop her out of my life again cuz it'd be better, but part of me cant let her go but I don't want to hold onto to someone that might not care as much as I do about her. I've done that before and its so painful, but sometimes she makes me unsure and other times she does/says things that make me not want to give up. she really is an amazing person in general and its hard not to think about her but idk the distance, age difference, her boyfriend (that she told me when we hung out that she's probably gonna dump him soon cuz he pisses her off and things aren't going well) like I don't know what I should do.. help??? ANY ADVICE about any of this please just help me.. without being cruel though please cuz i dont need that right now. thanks so much to anyone who helps!! @Ashlyn it's not that she doesn't want to be around me, she told me i'm the only girl that's made her feel like she just wants to hold me in her arms and be around me. the problem now is that she goes to college on the east coast and i live on the west coast..

Open Question: i'm practically in love with my best friend..what do i do now?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 06:51 PM PDT

1. i'm so lost in my mind that I want real advice please 2. this may be kinda long, I will try to shorten it as much as possible but please if yu read this whole thing I'd be so greatful especially if u have good advice to offer ok so im a girl and my best friend is a girl. Im in high school and she is in college (we became best friends in high school). I don't like labels, but basically I'm "bisexual" if u must know. So the first year I met her we were like sisters but towards the end of the year when she was leaving for college, I knew I had a crush on her but she had no idea that I even liked girls at all. We had a rough summer and ultimately the day before she left for college we were no longer friends. At all. I was mad at her because she did a lot of stuff that I thought our friendship wasn't worth it, especially knowing that I liked her and I thought well she's going to college so it'd be easier for me to forget about her. But then throughout the next year she kept reaching out to me a few times and then when this past summer came again, we had dinner one random night. We talked about our friendship and stuff and I finally told her that I had liked her before and to be honest, I still kinda did after seeing her face-to-face that night. She told me she had feelings for me too! She said at first she was unsure because she had never felt that way about a girl and she was confused as to how she felt about me but after knowing that I liked her she realized she might've liked me too. But she has a boyfriend. After that night we didn't talk really and then we both attended our friend's birthday party and i spent the night at our friend's house and she came over too along with some other friends for a few hours. We talked so it wouldn't be awkward, but still it was different. Then we texted a little after and a few days later she was leaving for college again. The day before she left she picked me up after school and we went to a local coffee place and talked and hung out but it wasn't until after she went home and we texted that she said she still likes me NOW and I definitely like her and we had texted for a week after she left for college and flirted big time and I don't know it felt right. But then I hadn't heard from her for a few days and now she takes hourssss to text me back and she doesn't talk to me like she likes me now its kinda like whatever and I don't know. I went a year without talking to her and I was doing fine and now that I let her back in my life especially after opening to her about my feelings and she shared hers with me too, I'm hooked all over again and I don't know what to do. Part of me thinks it'll never happen and I cant stand being away from her for months at a time and I should just drop her out of my life again cuz it'd be better, but part of me cant let her go but I don't want to hold onto to someone that might not care as much as I do about her. I've done that before and its so painful, but sometimes she makes me unsure and other times she does/says things that make me not want to give up. she really is an amazing person in general and its hard not to think about her but idk the distance, age difference, her boyfriend (that she told me when we hung out that she's probably gonna dump him soon cuz he pisses her off and things aren't going well) like I don't know what I should do.. help??? ANY ADVICE about any of this please just help me.. without being cruel though please cuz i dont need that right now. thanks so much to anyone who helps!!

Open Question: How should i play this? Need positive advice?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 06:41 PM PDT

Right, now a long story short. I have met this girl and now known her for about 3 - 4 weeks, she is absolutely amazing and we get on like a house on fire. I know she likes me because i met her through friends who apparantly she told them i was hot. Anyway, we have been chatting away and already been on a date and it couldnt of gone better. She was more on it that me if you know what i mean and we were talking about sex & oral etc. I wanted to treat her with respect so being the gentlemen i said to her its best if people wait after a few dates until they have sex because all good things come to those who wait and she agreed. Here is the problem though she has told me she really likes me BUT she has just come out of her first seriouse relationship who she was with for 2 years. She does take a while to reply to my texts and hardly ever answers my calls or returns them but that doesnt bother me because she is busy. I thought she was being abit off with me one day and ignoring me so i asked her if she did actually like me and she replied 'I really do like you, im fond of you its just ive just come out of a relationship and need time' which is 100% fair enough. Ive never had a serious relationship befor so i want this to be right. I explained to her i will support her all the way and if she needs anything i am here for her. She said i was the nicest boy ive ever met and i was so sweet and kind for understanding. Here is the problem though, im scared that if i start stop flirting with her she may think ive lost interest and find another boy? I dont want to put her under any pressure with over flirting her either so i am really confused. Im 18 and she is 19 by the way, both not virgins. Any advice would be great

Open Question: How would you handle your boyfriend having a crush on someone else?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 06:05 PM PDT

How would you handle your boyfriend having a crush on someone else? I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I recently had a suspicion that he had a crush on this girl I noticed him talking to a lot more. I asked him straight up and he confessed that he did but that he had not cheated or even flirted with her. I believe him. Although I did not ask him to stop talking to her, he made it clear that he wanted to continue to keep in contact with her regularly because they're such "good friends". (however...he had never mentioned her to me before..) He explained that the crush is nothing compared to how much he loves me and kind of expects me to just ignore it. I'm not the jealous type but I don't think I can do that knowing that he could be texting her while he's hanging out with me. I need a rational, unbiased person to give me advice. -_- Is it unreasonable to ask him to stop talking to her? Even if they aren't seeing each other or flirting..? I understand its natural to be attracted to other people while in a relationship...isnt it?

Open Question: I think my girl friend is turning bi sexual....?!?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 05:47 PM PDT

If your wondering i'm in 8th grade so is my girl, and her friend. I'm thinking my beautiful gf bi or something. Her best friend and her are always flirting! I'm jealous bc she flirts with her best friend more than she does with me. I really don't care bc their girls and it turns me on but it's happening alot. My bros are telling me how in class their always giggling with eachother, feeling their legs, and get to touchy in the corner of class (where barely anyone can see them) they been doing this alot. People are telling me to break up with her......I'm not but am I stupid not too? Do girls usually do this...Today my girl's best friend said to me "bro you got a lucky girl." I said "I know so don't try to take her away from me." She told me "Hm I won't promise you anything." And giggled. She's bi sexual. But my girl isn't. But I guess she's turning into one. I talked to my girl friend and she told me "It's not anyone's buisness and I love you so don't worry about it." I don't know.....advice? thanks

Open Question: What's Good Girl Advice?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 05:47 PM PDT

So, I just started at new school with all my friends and I met a girl there. I am good friends with her and wanna take it to the other level (bushwick reference). She really likes my best friend but, he really doesn't like her. He already rejected her. I was wondering what I should do and how to go about asking her out without making it awkward. She's in most of my classes and we sometimes go out for lunch (not alone) so we see eachother alot during the day. And if she says no it would ruin our friendship and we wouldn't talk anymore. We flirt a lot at school and stuff and text eachother a lot (even like 5 hours at a time). She actually texted me to ask my friend if he wanted to go out with her and I gave her the nice version of the rejection and not the honest version.

Resolved Question: How do I say no to a guy if he is almost everything I envision?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 05:46 PM PDT

He is nice, funny, helpful, understanding, and down-to-earth. He also has high integrity. But... he is almost twice my age (18 years older), aggressive, chivalry, wants to be right, and is mostly if not always busy! I never ran into this problem before. Also, he mentioned about the girl he dated 15 years ago, the one that just broke his heart. Yet, he like to flirt (calling me cute, etc) or make jokes about me. He is experience with the ladies that I think he is just playing me. Advice? I am confuse if I am just lusting or actually want to be with someone like him. *know He knows I am leaving the country soon so I am sure if he just want to hook up and leave you, you know? Thanks. I will checked but he is a construction guy that is very anal (so he just seems like a bachelor.

Open Question: need advice, please help me!?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 05:33 PM PDT

I pretended to be another girl and even though I thought we were Just friends I would flirt with this guy and he sent mixed messages so I didn't think he had 'real' feelings towards me/and the girl in the pictures. After he found out he was really mad and acted like he Hated me through his words to me, others, and by his actions Now I am on the site again but I'm not sure what to do around him. Should I wait and see if he talks and likes the real me for me? Should I try talking to him again? I wish I could just forget about him but I like him a Lot and would like to at least be friends!

Open Question: What's the best way I can start and hold a conversation with a girl I like?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 05:08 PM PDT

I'm a pretty shy and awkward type of guy and haven't had much luck with relationships in high school so far, but I am planning on asking a girl I know through a friend to homecoming for the first time and wanted to get to know her a little better before asking her. There are a handful of girls that I'm friends with that I'm comfortable with and don't have a problem talking to, but whenever I try to talk to the girl I like, I can't really think of much to say for some reason. I've also always had trouble flirting with girls in general without sounding like an idiot. Any advice?

Open Question: please help I need advice!?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 05:06 PM PDT

pretended to be another girl and even though I thought we were Just friends I would flirt with this guy and he sent mixed messages so I didn't think he had 'real' feelings towards me/and the girl in the pictures. After he found out he was really mad and acted like he Hated me through his words to me, others, and by his actions Now I am on the site again but I'm not sure what to do around him. Should I wait and see if he talks and likes the real me for me? Should I try talking to him again? I wish I could just forget about him but I like him a Lot and would like to at least be friends!

Open Question: please help i'm in need of advice!?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 04:55 PM PDT

I pretended to be another girl and even though I thought we were Just friends I would flirt with this guy and he sent mixed messages so I didn't think he had 'real' feelings towards me/and the girl in the pictures. After he found out he was really mad and acted like he Hated me through his words to me, others, and by his actions Now I am on the site again but I'm not sure what to do around him. Should I wait and see if he talks and likes the real me for me? Should I try talking to him again? I wish I could just forget about him but I like him a Lot and would like to at least be friends!

Open Question: HELP! Confused about this guy?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 04:42 PM PDT

So theres this guy that sits behind me in two of my classes and he constantly tries to talk to me and he is very nice. I am an openly gay sophmore and he knows it too, which is whats the odd part,as i figured he is striaght. I thought at first he was just being nice but he hold deep eyecontact and he always adresses me by my name,in a slightly flirty way. Whenever we talk he always smiles and holds this very attractive and luriing eye contact that makes me nervous. Im deffintly attracted to him, but idk how to go about flirting with him or knowing what his orientation is without out right asking him. (please dont do annoying 2 sentence answers,i actually want genuine advice or a web link/email or something) So, how can i flirt with him in a waythat is not TOO noticeable,yet easily picked up on?

Open Question: Relationship advice? deep issue here?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 04:27 PM PDT

Ok so im gonna try not to confuse anybody well for starters my last relationship was very controlling the guy made me tell him EVERYTHING LITERALLY! like if a guy walked past us sitting down and i thought to myself oh nice shoes, i would feel bad for thinking that bc it was another guy and feel the need to tell him and he would get upset. so now every relationship i try to have is ruined bc of this i cant stop feeling the need to tell the guy everything like if i thought something bad about him but dont mean it now, i feel like i cant be with him bc im hiding something and im a liar and a horrible person solution would be to tell him right? no i no thats not what i need to do bc if i tell him hell be upset and im jus gonna continuously feel the need to tell him or like if were not dating and ive flirted with a few guys here or there i feel so horrible like its all i think about and i mean honestly i didnt do anything wrong i know this so why do i feel the need to tell him and like my world is ending? idk thats the thing and its heartbreaking and i really like this guy and besides who would wanna know any of that? can you imagine going up to somebody hey umm before we were dating i flirted with some guys and thought something about you? then theyre gonna be like this girl is a cheater a liar and a bitch so see my point can anybody give me some type of answers here? serious answers please andthank you.

Open Question: Is it ok to like a guy that liked me last year?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 04:04 PM PDT

In detail...... -Last year, a boy named Peter liked me. We sat together in the one class we had and he flirted with me, took my stuff away, was playful and texted me. I did not like him back because I felt that we were too much of friends to go onto the next level -Along with last year, I liked Peter's best friend. Sometimes I would go to Peter for advice about the guy and had Peter ask what his friend thought about me -Well over the summer Peter's friend and I had our "break up". We weren't officially together but we were extremely close. -School started a month ago and I've seen Peter around on campus. One day, I told him I missed talking to him [just like old times] -A few days ago, Peter asked about me&the other guy. I told him what happened, then he asked if I wanted to be set up with anyone or if I liked anyone else. -My friend mentioned to me whenever Peter sees me, he always smiles a lot I really want to go for him and all but..... -He has a girlfriend. But here's the thing, he told me they have been fighting non-stop and he's thinking about cutting the whole thing off in a few weeks. He also said he's sick of her and how she's so demanding and blah blah blah Also, since we are both Seniors, this coming Monday is our "senior class trip" where all the Seniors bond together, if you guys think I should try for this guy, do you think I should get closer to him on this trip? How would I do that? PLEASE ANSWER!!! SHOULD I TRY TO GO FOR HIM OR NOT????

Resolved Question: We've never met, but could there be something there?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 03:40 PM PDT

So this guy and I have been texting (met through a friend) every day for the past 2 weeks, we've gotten to know each other and we're friends on facebook. Sometimes I think he likes me but I'm not really sure He tells me to have sweet dreams or sometimes he just texts me the word hug when i say im bored or having a bad. Is there anything there besides friendship? what is your advice? Could he just be flirting and not really mean anything? Thanks!

Open Question: How do you get over a boy?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 03:35 PM PDT

I'm seriously head over heels for this kid but I know he's not good for me we've been through so much together and we've been over for almost 4 months. I see him and were friends we hangout all the time cuz we have the same group of friends I've hooked up with other guys since we broke up but these feeling just won't go away. We flirt all the time in and outside of school I know he talks to other girls just like I talk to other guys but for some reason I just want him so badly. He like my best friend and so much more than that what do I do should I talk to him about it and if I do what do I say I need advice hella bad!

Open Question: Feeling insecure because of younger sister...plz answer?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 03:35 PM PDT

my sister is a year younger than me..shes 17 and im 18...she can get any guy she wants and she always has...right now shes pregnant but guys still want to get with her even though she already has a bf..recently i started liking this guy but i think that he wants to be with her..as he flirts with her non stop when were all hanging out...i feel like a spare wheel...she done it before..she knew i liked one guy alot but she was still with him..my sis is skinnier..blonde and wears make up...but i dont..thats the only difference between us...i wont meet a lad incase they like her more..as ino dey always do...i feel like im living in my sisters shadow...this really gets me down...can someone give me advice on how to deal with this please...there is only so much i can stand...she actually was with 2 guys i really liked and she knew about it

Open Question: Homeless staying with a friend woman problems :(?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 03:33 PM PDT

I'm 24 first time being homeless staying with my childhood friend after his 44yr old mom invited me to stay for a week or until I get back on my feet. Well ne ways the first couple days went alright except for sum suspicious flirting, but I just shrugged it off as her just being really nice. So I've been sleeping on the couch and last night her husband went deep sea fishing and my friend was staying with his gf so we were alone ne ways its 130am and I awaken to her feeling my stomach, I thought I was in a dream but after 5secs I knew it was real, she told me she's been fantasizing about me which is weird I'm 5'9 130lbs not to good looking and we just started making out dirty style i got my first bj and I had the best sex ever. Now its the next day and I feel like a shmuck doing this to my best buddy my brain is telling me to stay quiet but my heart is killing me any advice people I want this off my conscious, I wasnt in my right mind

Open Question: GUYS AND GIRLS: Does he STILL like me? NEED ADVICE!?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 01:51 PM PDT

Alright so i moved to a new school, it was crazy. And you know, you HAVE to like someone to be cool. So i said this one dudes name, and at the time i didnt give two shits about him. But after a while i started noticing him. Then there was alot of chemistry, we had every class together, and HAD to sit next to each other cuz of assigned seats. But i am not a confident person, so i thought he didnt like me back. So i started getting over him. After about 4 months, i heard he was dating this other girl that's like my arch enemy for not fucking reason and it was her "revenge". and she dumped him like sh*t. and he was all broken, and so he told one of my friends that he wants to ask me out but he's scared i'd say no. So after about 3 weeks of that thing dragging on i asked him out. He COMPLETELY ignored me, and never talked to me. He would flirt with other girls (majorly) in gym class or right in front of me like letting them steal his hat and wear his sweatshirt. It HURT. and i hated him for it. So i dumped him saying that summer is here and maybe after summer we'll think about it. The day before school was gonna get out another dude asked me out and i said sure. then i realized that i broke up with him using the excuse of summer, and now i'm dating someone else. SO i told no to the other dude, but before i could say no, word was out. And then summer came and i was over him -mostly over him- and so we started talking alot. And he asked me for my cell No. and i said give me urs and i'll think about it. cuz i was done playing. so i texted him after a couple days. and soon we started texting everyday. and then school started agn. and he was having a bday party and invited me, and it felt akward so i didnt go. during his party he started dating someone else. so it broke me agn like he was playing me the whole summer. So again i got myself over him. He and his gf dated for like 7 months. until he broke up with her. then spring rolled around and we started flirting AGN. and it went on forever. but i stopped myself. THen summer came and nothing happend and now he's dating someone agn! HELP! BTW i'm a girl! haha, and i'm over him, the reason y i asked this question is hes coming in my dreams. and that's a private place. i hate it that he's there. Everyone's told me that he still likes me, and he never calls me a friend, never. i just feel like i'm getting mixed messages. NEED TO NO!

Resolved Question: Is this flirting?! Help! :)?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 01:32 PM PDT

I'm the new girl at a small school. My friends showed me who all the cute senior guys were and one of them was named Tyler. On my 3rd day of school I had my laptop open and my background was of my favorite band. I've never talked to Tyler before but he comes up and sees my background. He asks if I like that band and we hit it off and started talking about music in general. About 3 days later, my class got split up into groups by our teacher and I was in a small group with him. After we were done working, we all just sat there and played on our computers. I heard him ask me what grade I was in and I first thought he wasnt talking to me because most seniors ( Im a junior ) don't talk to juniors at my school. I told him i was new at the school and he asked all the basic questions about why I moved here and stuff like that. He then told me to check out this place he goes to everyday after school and told me I would see him there. Is this flirting?? I mean I kind of can't tell because Im new to this school, but all my friends are going crazy about it because they all think he is so hott and he doesn't even know them, and they all have been going to the same school for like 10 years. Also, whenever he walks by me we lock eyes.. which is kind of awkward but I just am really excited about this because I really like him! What do you think? Does anyone have any advice too about how I can talk to him more or something?

Resolved Question: URGH!! School drama, advice please!!?

Posted: 17 Sep 2011 01:30 PM PDT

Well my class friend michelle is very annoying sometimes and she gets rude to me at times and im always there for her and she really bumlicks people who hardly care about her, goes and hugs them and flirts with guy (i laugh in my head because shes kinda bad at it). but now wen she comes back to school, everyone is gunna be sympathetic towards her and giving her all the attention because she just had an operation and shes gunna be on crutches for 6 weeks. then shes gunna wait for 6 weeks and get an operation on her other leg which will recover in another 6 weeks and then shes gunna be using crutched for another weeks which totals 19 weeks which is just less then 5 months. everyone is gunna be giving her all the attention and im just gunna be left behind in the crowd. how can i get over my patheticness? ive tried so hard... but it doesnt seem to work. i need some advice and please dont judge me.. this always happens and again shes gunna be centre of attention. i try not to be jealous but she always makes sure i feels that way, can you give me some advice or just tell me something i can do so she doesnt get that attention or something... I did ignore the stupid comment -_- and thanks for the real suggestion because unlike people such as that person who commented there, we have actually been through everyday situations, thanks, that was the answer i was looking for :) thank you so muchh xx
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